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Monday, June 21, 2010

Best Friends: My Support System

This is my recent entry on my facebook notes. i was posting it at facebook earlier, just so i can directly tagged my friends. But now, I feel like posting it here too. so here we go!


Best friends, in my honest opinion, are people who always there no matter what. I don't have to act or play coy. I can scream, fight and being childish all i want, but they will still accept me. They don't necessarily have to agree with me, but they also did not despise me for being who i am.

Friendship is effortless.

it's supposed to be that way. effortless doesn't mean you do whatever you want or like regardless of your friend's feeling, you still respect each other but you don't have to think and try hard to please the other end.

I always being me with my best friends. I can care, listen and be there for them. but i also can get upset, being moody, asking them to pick me up or something, well, i'm being honest. Did they ever upset when i was like that? YES, BIG TIME! But, did they ever leave me? never.
I don't have to act all sweet and sugary for making them to stay.

We often talk things behind each other back, yes it is bad, but it's also human. There is a saying "those who gossip with you, also gossip about you" err, something like that, i don't know the exact words. and whoever said that the first time was getting it spot on. i mean it's true, so true. anyone who deny it, is either a saint or a liar. But there is always a way to make things right, and for me and my friends, is to saying it upfront to the person we were talking behind afterward. yes, we talk about each other, but we do not keep those things we're saying behind in the end. we are human, but we choose to be a better human. we do not want to judge, as simple as that.

When life is hard, i lean on them. I realized just recently how my friends is becoming my support system. when i was upset or sad, a simple text can cheer me up. when everything seems wrong, they took me to the right path and saying the right things at the right time. they're not saying 'i love you' that often, but they always asking me 'how things are going?' or 'where are you?' and it's more than enough. because i knew they care.

Me and them, we have a bond, as hard as gold, as long as forever told.


Note. Thank you dear friends, to stick with me throughout these years or even decade. kisses.

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